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Slow Heart Rate in Older Adults: Bradycardia, Pacemakers & What to Know

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Have you ever been told that your heart rate is slow, or maybe too slow?

This is called bradycardia, and it’s fairly common in older adults. Whereas in younger adults, a slow heart rate is often due to being in good cardiovascular shape, with aging, a slower heart rate often reflects changes in the heart’s electrical system. (Medications are another common cause.)

This can be an issue because a slower heart rate can cause symptoms such as fatigue, dizziness, falls, or trouble keeping up with usual activities.

Fortunately, in certain situations, a pacemaker can be an effective treatment that helps older adults feel substantially better.

To help older adults learn more about bradycardia and when to consider a pacemaker, I interviewed cardiologist Cara Pellegrini, MD, who specializes in cardiac electrophysiology. Here’s what’s most important to know, based on our conversation.

What Is a Pacemaker and How Does It Help a Slow Heart Rate?

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Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles

7 Steps to Managing Difficult Dementia Behaviors
(Safely & Without Medications)

by Paula Spencer Scott

(This article is by my colleague Paula Spencer Scott, author of the book Surviving Alzheimer’s: Practical Tips and Soul-Saving Wisdom for Caregivers. I invited her to share an article on this topic, since many in our community are coping with dementia behaviors. — Dr. K)

The odd behaviors of Alzheimer’s and other dementias can be so frustrating and stressful for families.

I’m talking about the kinds of behaviors that try patience, fray relationships, and drive us in desperate search of help:

“First she thinks the caregiver is stealing her sunglasses and now she accused me of having an affair.”

“When I tried to help Dad wash up, he hit me.”

“My husband follows me so closely I can’t stand it. But if I go in another room he’ll wander out of the house.” 

“Mom started unbuttoning her shirt in the middle of the restaurant!”

“Just when I’m completely exhausted at the end of the day, he seems to get revved up. He keeps peeking out the windows, convinced that someone is trying to break in. Now he won’t sleep.”

A common approach to sundowning and difficult behaviors is to go right to medicating them with tranquilizers, sedatives, or antipsychotics. But that’s risky and often not what’s best.

In fact, experts recommend trying behavior management first, and for good reasons: It tends to be more effective in the long run than “chemical restraints,” has no dangerous side effects, and leads to a better care relationship. But people often don’t know how to do this.

I’ve learned how.

I’ve lived through five close family members’ experiences with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia. Lots of trial and error, and insights from dozens of top dementia experts (whose brains I’ve been lucky to pick as a journalist and dementia educator), got me through regular scenes with…

  • My father-in-law, who needed a walker to move yet spent hour after hour for several days straight hauling all his clothes and toiletries from his room to our driveway, insisting that his (imaginary) new wife was about to pick him up
  • My dad, a formerly sharp dresser who wore the same shirt and pants every day no matter how dirty
  • My grandmother, who insisted on going “home,” when she was home
  • And other relatives, in dozens of similar scenes.

In this article, I want to share what I wish someone had explained to me early on: the “Why-This, Try-This” approach to dealing with difficult behaviors.

This is a mental framework that can help you get unstuck from unproductive responses that get you nowhere or make things worse.

It can bring calm -– to both of you — whether the issue is verbal or physical aggression, agitation, confusion, wandering, disinhibition, delusions, hallucinations, or a restless or repetitive behavior (like pacing, shadowing, rummaging). It also works well with milder irritants like repetitive questions and indecision.

Then, I’ll boil down the Why-This, Try-This concept to a 7-step process you can use every time. These “7 R”s give you a basic platform for responding to any frustrating behavior:

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Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: alzheimer's, dementia

6 Common Medication Problems in Aging, & What You Can Do

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

Too many pills?

Yesterday, August 21, was National Senior Citizens Day, a good opportunity to recognize older adults and reflect on what supports healthier aging. Medication safety is an important part of that, since the benefits, risks, and burdens of medications can change as we get older.

If you’re helping an older person with health and healthcare, chances are that person is taking at least a few prescription medications, if not several.

Do you ever wonder if he or she is on the right medications? Do you worry about side-effects and interactions?

These are sensible concerns to have. Many older adults end up experiencing “polypharmacy,” which means taking more than 5 medications concurrently.

And although medications do often help maintain health and wellbeing, studies have repeatedly shown that lots of older adults end up suffering from problems related to medication.

Polypharmacy, predictably, increases the risk of problems.  (Polypharmacy is usually defined as taking five or more medications concurrently.) But even older adults taking one to three daily medications can encounter problems.

So I want to share a list of common ways that medications affect the health and wellbeing of aging adults. I’ll then explain what you can do, to minimize these problems.

Six Common Medication-Related Problems in Aging Adults

Here are the most common problems that I see: [Read more…]

Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: medication safety, medications

Addressing Medical, Legal, & Financial Advance Care Planning:
The Healthy Aging Checklist Part 6

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

Power of attorney

This is the sixth and final post covering the Healthy Aging Checklist, a set of six core activities that will help any older adult maintain the best possible health while aging.

They are:

  • Promote brain health and emotional well-being.
  • Promote physical health.
  • Check for and address common aging health problems (such as falls, memory concerns, depression, incontinence, pain, isolation, polypharmacy).
  • Learn to optimize the management of any chronic conditions.
  • Get recommended preventive health services for older adults.
  • Address medical, legal, and financial advance care planning.

In this post, I’ll address the last item on the list: advance planning for medical, legal, and financial issues. This includes power of attorney documents, plus much more.

This is a big topic, and it’s not possible to cover everything you could or should do in a single article. You would need a book for that — I suggest three down below — plus it’s best to work with qualified professionals (healthcare providers, eldercare attorneys, and financial planners) before completing any legally binding paperwork.

But every day as I work, I see older adults and families whose health and well-being is being affected by the consequences of their planning — or lack of planning, as the case often is.

So in this post, I will share some practical information that should make it easier for you to address planning that covers some common age-related challenges:

  • The three key steps involved in all advance planning for aging
  • 5 common problems every older adult and family should consider planning for
  • 5 key steps for advanced planning in healthcare, and where to get a good free medical power of attorney (POA)
  • 4 key steps for advance planning for legal and financial issues, and what to know about general POAs
  • Tips for adult children, including what to do if you’re concerned about mental capacity or undue influence

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Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: Advance Care Planning, dementia, healthy aging, power of attorney

27 Recommended Preventive Health Services for Older Adults: the Healthy Aging Checklist Part 5

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

Aging Parents To Do List

This is the fifth in a series of posts covering the Healthy Aging Checklist, which is my list of six fundamental activities that will help any older adult maintain the best possible health while aging.

 

They are:

  • Promote brain health and emotional well-being.
  • Promote physical health.
  • Check for and address common aging health problems (such as falls, memory concerns, depression, incontinence, pain, isolation, polypharmacy).
  • Learn to optimize the management of any chronic conditions.
  • Get recommended preventive health services for older adults.
  • Address medical, legal, and financial advance care planning.

In this post, I’ll cover recommended preventive health screening guidelines and other prevention services for older adults. These are based on the recommendations of the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force (USPSTF) and also on Medicare’s coverage of preventive health services.

By my count, based on the USPSTF and Medicare guidelines, there are currently 27 preventive health services that older adults should consider. I have a summary list here, and then detailed information on each service starting here.

Get Your Free Preventive Health Cheatsheet! The 27 proven preventive health services for older adults, in a handy PDF checklist that you can print or save. Includes details on who should get each service, and helpful links. Click here now.

But before you read about them, let’s go over the basics of how health screening and other preventive health services work, including why they can sometimes be harmful, or sometimes fall out of favor.

This way, when you review the list of preventive services to consider, you’ll better understand which services are likely to help, and why certain services may not be a good fit for you or your parent.

Understanding Preventive Health Services

Preventive health services essentially fall into three categories:

[Read more…]

Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: health screening tests, healthy aging, prevention

How to Age Better by Optimizing Chronic Conditions:
The Healthy Aging Checklist Part 4

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

Doctor & Older Woman

This is the fourth in a series of posts covering the Healthy Aging Checklist.

Again, the Healthy Aging Checklist summarizes the six fundamental activities I recommend when asked what to do to maintain the best possible health while aging. They are:

  • Promote brain health and emotional well-being.
  • Promote physical health.
  • Check for and address common aging health problems (such as falls, memory concerns, depression, incontinence, pain, isolation, polypharmacy).
  • Learn to optimize the management of any chronic conditions.
  • Get recommended preventive health services for older adults.
  • Address medical, legal, and financial advance care planning.

In this post, I’ll cover the fourth item: learning to optimize the management of any chronic conditions.

Now, people are often very interested in “prevention” and in “staying healthy.” But far fewer people seem to be interested in making sure that they and their doctors are doing the right things for any chronic conditions they already have, and — equally importantly — avoiding the wrong things.

This is a serious oversight, because most of the “aging” problems that older adults eventually develop are due to chronic health conditions that have progressed or caused complications.

So optimizing the care of chronic conditions is very important for the prevention of future health deterioration. And it’s also vital to helping older adults feel and function their best in the here and now.

According to Medicare, over two-thirds of beneficiaries have two or more chronic conditions. Here’s a figure from the Medicare Chronic Conditions Chartbook, showing what percentage of older adults are affected by the 15 most common chronic conditions:

Prevalence of Chronic Conditions Medicare 2012 Chartbookjpg_Page1

I can’t emphasize this enough: these chronic conditions often are the key drivers, when it comes to an older person’s symptoms, health crises, health declines, and the eventual development of disabilities.

Furthermore, I’m sorry to say this but here goes: you should not assume that doctors will provide you with optimal care for chronic conditions. Experts have estimated that patients get only about half of recommended healthcare. A large body of healthcare quality research has repeatedly documented that it is very common for older adults to receive healthcare that varies from “wrong” (e.g. totally counter to guidelines with no documented justification for this) to “sub-optimal” (which means it’s not very deficient but could and should be better).

Later in this article, I will go into more detail on why doctors often provide sub-optimal care, and what you can do about it.

But first, let’s review what’s at stake and why it’s worthwhile to make sure you optimize the healthcare of an older adult’s chronic conditions. I’ll then finish by providing some practical tips to help you be proactive so you can optimize the care of chronic conditions, for healthier aging.

8 Ways Chronic Conditions Harm the Health & Well-being of Older Adults

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Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: healthy aging

7 Commonly Neglected Problems to Address for Healthier Aging:
The Healthy Aging Checklist Part 3

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

Aging man

This is the third in a series of posts covering the Healthy Aging Checklist.

Again, the Healthy Aging Checklist summarizes the six fundamental activities I recommend when asked what to do to maintain the best possible health while aging. They are:

  • Promote brain health and emotional well-being.
  • Promote physical health.
  • Check for and address common aging health problems (such as falls, memory concerns, depression, incontinence, pain, isolation, polypharmacy).
  • Learn to optimize the management of any chronic conditions.
  • Get recommended preventive health services for older adults.
  • Address medical, legal, and financial advance care planning.

In this post, I’ll cover the third item: addressing commonly neglected aging health problems that routinely sabotage healthy aging.

These issues are sometimes referred to as geriatric syndromes. They affect health and quality of life, and although they happen more in people who are older or frailer, they affect countless people in their 60s and 70s as well.

Virtually all of these issues affect a older adults’s ability to socialize, be physically active, and take good care of himself or herself.  So addressing these is key to enabling healthier aging.

Unfortunately, these issues routinely fall through the cracks of usual medical care. People often suffer from these problems for years without anyone taking effective action.

This may be because many people — doctors, older adults themselves, or family members — assume nothing can be done about these, and that they are just “part of getting old.”

Don’t believe that.  We have studied these problems in geriatrics and most of the time, correctly evaluating and then managing these problems helps older adults and their families feel better, live better, and sometimes even live longer.

Remember, healthy aging is not just about preventing problems. It’s also about spotting them and addressing them before they get worse, or drag down the rest of your health and independence.

So for healthier aging, be proactive in checking for these oft-neglected problems.

And then remember: sub-optimal treatment of these problems is all too common. So you’ll need to be proactive about getting them correctly managed — which might mean either seeing a geriatrician (here’s how to find a geriatrician) or making sure your usual doctor is thinking like one.

Here’s what to look for, and how to learn more:

7 Common Problems to Check for and Address for Healthier Aging

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Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: falls, healthy aging, medications, memory, pain

How to Promote Physical Health While Aging:
The Healthy Aging Checklist Part 2

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

Old man shooting a basketball ball and looking to sky in the park

This is the second in a series of posts explaining my Healthy Aging Checklist.

Remember, for the healthiest aging, we need to do the things that optimize health — and health care — so that the brain and body work at their best for now, and for the future.

I’ve identified six broad actions to take:

The Healthy Aging Checklist:

  • Promote brain health and emotional well-being.
  • Promote physical health.
  • Check for and address common aging health problems (e.g. falls, pain, memory problems, depression, isolation, incontinence, polypharmacy, etc).
  • Learn to optimize the management of any chronic conditions.
  • Get recommended preventive health services for older adults.
  • Address medical, legal, and financial advance care planning.

In this post, we’ll cover proven ways to promote and maintain physical health as one ages.

6 Proven Ways to Promote Physical Health

Here are the six “healthy living” actions that I recommend, for promoting physical health in all older adults. They all have a solid track record (which cannot be said for everything I see recommended online). They are also good “bang-for-the-buck,” in part because they provide real benefits to just about everyone who adopts them. And they help whether or not an older person has already developed chronic illnesses.

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Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: healthy aging

5 Types of Medication Used to Treat Sundowning & Difficult Dementia Behaviors

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

medication for Alzheimer's behavior

One of the greatest challenges, when it comes to Alzheimer’s disease and other dementias, is coping with sundowning and with difficult behaviors. 

These are symptoms beyond the chronic memory/thinking problems that are the hallmark of dementia. They include problems like:

  • Delusions, false accusations, paranoid behaviors, or irrational beliefs
  • Agitation (getting “amped up” or “revved up”) and/or aggressive behavior
  • Restless pacing or wandering
  • Disinhibited behaviors, which means saying or doing socially inappropriate things
  • Sleep disturbances

These are technically called “neuropsychiatric” symptoms, but regular people might refer to them as “acting crazy” symptoms. Or even “crazy-making” symptoms, as they do tend to drive family caregivers a bit nuts.

And when these behaviors happen in the late afternoon or early evening, it’s usually called “sundowning“. (In most cases, sundowning is triggered by fatigue; anticholinergic medications may cause sundowning symptoms as well.)

Because these behaviors are difficult and stressful for caregivers — and often for the person with dementia — people often ask if any medications can help.

The short answer is “Maybe.”

[Read more…]

Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: alzheimer's, dementia, medication, paranoia

How to Promote Brain Health:
The Healthy Aging Checklist, Part 1

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH

Aging brain

“Doctor, what do you recommend for healthy aging?”

“My mom is getting older and I want to help her stay healthy. What should we be doing?”

On this site, I usually write about how to manage or avoid specific aging health challenges. But in real life, I often get asked the questions above. After all, many people want advice on how to be healthier, or stay healthy.

That’s because we all intuitively know that maintaining good health (including cognitive function) is key to maintaining what is most important to us as we age: our ability to be physically and mentally capable, so that we can remain active, engaged in our lives, and as independent as possible.

We also know that poor health can bring on pain and other symptoms, as well as disabilities that can jeopardize how we live our usual lives. In fact, most “aging” problems that older adults and families struggle with — like difficulties with mobility, memory, or independence —  track back to underlying health problems.

So it’s good to know how to maintain one’s health as one ages, in order to keep our minds and bodies working well for as long as possible.

Furthermore, healthy aging isn’t just about forestalling aging or disability. It’s also about knowing how to make the best of things even once you do have chronic diseases or chronic disabilities of the mind or body. I call this optimizing health, for better health while aging.

It means optimizing one’s health — and health care — so that the brain and body work at their best for now and for the future. And the beauty of this is that the same key things work, whether you are a “healthy” older person with no particular health problems versus someone who has chronic conditions or even an “uncurable” disabling disease such as Alzheimer’s.

In this series of posts, I’m going to tell you how to do this.

The Healthy Aging Checklist

For the healthiest aging, do this:

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Filed Under: Aging health, Geriatrics For Caregivers Blog, Helping Older Parents Articles Tagged With: brain health, healthy aging, memory

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