In This Episode:
Dr. K discusses a reader’s dilemma concerning his resistant 96-year-old father, and explains how using two foundational concepts — goals of care, and weighing benefits versus burdens — can help families work through difficult decisions. (See here for the posted question and her written answer.) She covers:
- How to think about whether an older relative may have lost decision-making capacity
- The three key goals of medical care: helping people live longer, feel better, and function better
- Why thinking through goals of care is foundational in geriatrics
- Three common non-medical goals for older adults: autonomy, safety, and privacy
- What to do when goals come into conflict
- How to use a “benefits versus burdens” framework to think through dilemmas and difficult decisions
- How the reader with the resistant 96-year-old father might think through his options
- 4 suggestions to keep in mind when discussing difficult topics with an older relative