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060 – Interview: Negotiating Family Caregiving Expectations After Hospitalization

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH Leave a Comment

In This Episode:

Dr. K talks with caregiving expert Carol Levine, Director of the Families and Health Care Project at the United Hospital Fund of New York and author of “Planning for Long-Term Care for Dummies.” In this episode, they discuss negotiating caregiving expectations with hospital staff and family members, including:

  • Why it’s common for older adults and their family members to have different ideas of what kind of help is needed after a hospitalization
  • How to better negotiate what you can and can’t do with hospital staff — or with an older loved one who’s being discharged home
  • How Carol managed expectations once her husband required significant caregiving
  • What to know about the new laws (CARE acts) that require hospitals to coordinate with family caregivers
  • How drawing a “CareMap” can help
  • Why it’s often worth getting a professional to help you discuss caregiving with family members
  • How to make hospital discharge decisions if an older person has become confused in the hospital
  • How family caregivers can reduce guilt and set healthy boundaries

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036 – Interview: Minimizing Family Conflicts & Supporting Aging Parents

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH Leave a Comment

In This Episode:

Dr. K talks with Janet Benvenuti, a family caregiving expert who is the founder of Circle of Life Partners and the author of “Don’t Give Up on Me: Supporting Aging Parents Successfully.” They discuss:

  • Janet’s experience becoming responsible for her parents’ financial affairs and medical care
  • How Janet and her siblings negotiated caregiving roles and conflicts
  • An exercise to help you map out your family’s resources to build a caregiving team
  • Why Janet wishes her family had done more advance planning related to housing
  • The role of personal care agreements and compensation in family caregiving
  • Janet’s tips on how boomers can set up a game plan for their own aging
  • How to use Janet’s book to help your family plan for aging

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081 – Interview: How to Plan Ahead for Your Later Years

by Leslie Kernisan, MD MPH Leave a Comment

In This Episode:

Dr. K talks with family caregiving expert Carol Levine, Director of the Families and Health Care Project at the United Hospital Fund of New York about her new book, “Navigating Your Later Years for Dummies.”  They discuss:

  • How to be proactive about your current and future age-related needs
  • Why it’s vital to start by taking a personal inventory of your preferences and resources
  • How your financial situation affects your housing and care options in later life
  • Why it’s especially helpful to discuss your finances and your living will with family
  • Pros and cons of aging in your own long-time home
  • Why it’s important to know that Medicare doesn’t cover most long-term care services
  • Planning tips for those aging alone or without family support
  • The value of aging within a community and maintaining a support network
  • How Carol has talked with her own children & planned for her own aging
  • How to avoid getting overwhelmed by the process

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